Nermal and I moved in with my beau this weekend. Besides Kitty and Nermal, I haven't had a roommate since 2000. Nerm's adjusted relatively well. Me, well, technically we've been living together since July (back and forth between my house and his), so it hasn't been that big of a transition. Well, except that I seriously need to downsize!!
Monday, April 21, 2014
Posted by H-woman at 5:24 PM
Wednesday, February 5, 2014
What you so casually threw away, I've waited my whole life for.
Those two kids, full of love and laughter that you barely have time for, I can't have my own, so thank you for sharing yours with me.
It must be difficult to watch him move on and be happy while your plans crumble around you. But this was your choice, not his. With each choice comes consequence.
I'm grateful he looked within himself and found the strength you convinced him he did not have.
I'm grateful he believes in love so much that he was willing to trust me with his heart.
For you, I hope you find whatever it is that you're looking for. I hope you have the grace to recognize that he has made his choice, just as you did. And with that grace, I hope that you will step back so that we can move forward.
Posted by H-woman at 6:04 AM
Sunday, December 22, 2013
On the third day of Christmas, my true love gave to me....
Well, I get it after Christmas, but a week of skiing is gonna be fan-freaking-tastic! But on third day, today (Sunday), I'm giving myself credit for getting on the scale. Let's just say that there's been a plethora of sugary goodness at work lately and I've been helping myself. A lot.
But it makes me feel like shit. Except Turtles. I love turtles! And so I decided to only eat the goodies I really love. And I busted some borscht out of the freezer (veggies have been sadly lacking lately) and baked some cabbage rolls too. Drank lots of water, had a good night's sleep and got up this morning to step on the scale.
It wasn't nearly as bad as I thought it would be (why, why, does a digital scale have so much control of my life?! Oh wait. It doesn't. It helps me collect data. I am a scientist, after all!).
So, I guess I really have learned a few things doing this lean eating thing:
-eating slowly means I usually don't need to go back for seconds
-veggies are awesome
-it's not about food
And so even though I'd tossed out most of the habits these past few weeks, the big one stuck. If I eat slowly, my body registers when I'm full. Built in portion control. Built in weight control.
And a solid hour of back bending followed by meditation didn't hurt, either.
I've got the ingredients for mulligatawny (YUM) and then I'm back to transcribing.
And I did some laundry today, too. Man, I'm awesome!!
Posted by H-woman at 2:45 PM
Saturday, December 21, 2013
Day 8 (Tuesday): The gift of vision I gave myself. In June I had eye surgery that has left me, for the first time since fourth grade, with better than 20/20 vision. It truly has been life changing!
Day 7 (Wednesday): I climbed Prairie Mountain. Even after an asthma attack mid-climb. And the majority of the group I was climbing with carried on (one stayed back, thank God). And no, I won't ever be hiking with them again!
Day 6 (Thursday): The courage of my convictions. I have an on-going issue with my former employer and while I could have just walked away, being right, and more importantly, doing the right thing, is more important in this case. Unfortunately, I have to wait until next June (almost two years since the incident) until I (well, my union's lawyers) present the case to an arbitrator.
Day 5 (Friday): I have conquered my sleep demons! Between a CPAP machine and a custom made mouth guard, I sleep again. Twenty years is a long time to function on little to no sleep. While I don't require as many zzzzz's per night as my honey, they are top quality hours of sleep. Quality trumps quantity any time!
Day 4 (Saturday): Rediscovering my yoga practice. Our kula pretty much dissolved when Anusara did, but I've made a committment to my mat and it feels great. Mind, body and soul are relishing it.
And with that, I'm off to practice. I've been sitting at the laptop most of the day (working on a project for a friend to earn some extra holiday cash (yes, I know it's almost Christmas. What can I say, I work best under pressure!)) and my body doth protest! I've got soup simmering (borscht) and cabbage rolls baking, so a tasty dinner will follow.
Monday, December 16, 2013
Wow, how is December 2013 almost over?! Where did the year go? It seems like just a few weeks ago it was New Year's. *shakes head*
So, what's new here?
I have yet to make it out skiing this year. It's making me sad. But my bank account has been saying "No" and I've been trying to be a grown-up about money recently, so my credit card has been safely stowed and I'm planning my skiing to fit the budget.
I'm doing a 12 Days of Christmas Challenge with my Lean Eating team.
Everyday, for the next 12 days, write something on a small pieces of paper that you've accomplished this year or that you want to remember and place it in the container you've chosen.
Since I'm still going between two houses, I'm going to blog them (and yes, I realize I'm behind by a few days already). Here goes:
Day 12 (Friday): 47 ski day season last year. My skiing improved so much I can barely believe it!
Day 11 (Saturday): Ditched a job that no longer served me and found one that did! I'm valued and appreciated for my skills and knowledge.
Day 10 (Sunday): Work life balance. See day 11, above.
Day 9 (Monday): Being open to possibilities...and love. And finding it.
to be continued....
Friday, October 25, 2013
Saturday, September 21, 2013
This summer has flown by! The flood and evacuation threw me for a bit of a loop, but then moving back and forth between my house and the new beau's has taken a toll, too. I'm home this weekend, but today I spent the day making hundreds of glorious perogies.
There are caramelized onion, potato and Grizzly Gouda perogies.
There are sweet potato, bacon, roasted garlic and cheese perogies. (Oh. My. God!)
There are cottage cheese perogies. Cottage cheese and dill perogies.
And last, but certainly not least, there are plum perogies.
We enjoyed the fruits of our labour with real Mennonite sausage (from Manitoba, no less) and schmot fat (cream gravy). Why, oh why, have I been eating fried perogies all these years?! Oh. My.
It's definitely not low calorie or healthy, but damned tasty!
Add the bounty of today to our work a few weeks ago (salsa, dill pickles, bean pickles and pickled carrots) and I'm ready for any zombie apocalypse (or any other food shortage).
I think a soak in the tub, a cuddle with Nerm and a phone call from my sweetie and I'm good to call it a day.
Posted by H-woman at 9:21 PM